Sunday, June 18, 2017

Father's Day

Happy Father's Day!

I will take this opportunity to shower some attention on my dad, a man who prefers I do not share anything, but will be a good sport about it when I do. 

It goes without stating, but my dad is one of the 'good ones'. He belongs in an elite category of men through history who can only be described as the "best of men." What warrants this distinction? 

In the history of my life--as recorded in thousands of personal writings--my dad was there to support, encourage, and uplift. He has played a significant role in shaping my character. And isn't that the ultimate duty of a loving parent? Aside from providing food and shelter, parents have the hefty responsibility of raising somewhat balanced individuals who contribute to society. Agree or disagree, I am positive that my stubborn personality was refined by parents who took the time to talk and listen. I will share one example for this post.

As a child, my dad would wake with the rising sun and ask the family if we would like to join him for a morning walk or run. He would always mention that when he was a kid his dad would dump buckets of cold water on him and his brother as a wake up call to begin their run to the east (Navajo tradition). My dad did not resort to such tactics, but I figured if he could get up and run, I could too. I may not have been the natural athlete he was, but I would get up and go. Years later, I still prefer early morning runs. I attribute much of my scrappiness to those simple yet consistent experiences of pushing myself out of my comfort zone. I credit my dad with giving me those opportunities to prove my scrappiness so that when I left home, I would be able to fly. 

Two scrappy Navajos, a grandpa and his grandson, hiking near Page, AZ.
Fun fact: I still run these trails when I visit the parents.
    



Three curious, fun-loving, scheming individuals.
In other words, a grandpa encouraging the next generation of scrappy Navajos. 



Monday, May 8, 2017

Thai Birthdays

Today, the Kong lab celebrated a birthday. This one demanded more than the customary cake from Cathy's bakery (Arcadia). 

This birthday was for Thai, the baby of the lab. It had to outshine past years. And it had to suit his personality because he is a character. 

And I reckon he deserves the few minutes of my time between experiments to explain the events leading to the pictures below.

I met Thai more than three years ago when he decided to pursue a few projects in the Kong Lab as a graduate student. 

We are like water and oil. If I were a fire-bender, he would be a water-bender. 




In past posts, I have alluded to four things that we agree on (see: Kong Lab Civil War). It all relates to food. 

Our boss has famously described our relationship as a pair of siblings: "When one is away, the other is sad because they are lonely; but when they are together, they are annoyed by each other." 

So given this context, what happened today? 

I'm glad you ask. A little over three years ago, Thai was annoying me. I knew his birthday was coming up and so I began asking questions to gauge his comfort level when it comes to social awkwardness.

I first asked if he would be embarrassed if I bought him an impressive bouquet of flowers. 

"No," was his response. 

"What if I bought balloons and made an exaggerated statement about your birthday in an email to everyone on the floor?"

"No. I don't get embarrassed. You'll need to try harder, Xazmin." 

"Okay. That's cool. Just checking." 

I decided at that time, I would pester him every year on his birthday. 


In 2015, I didn't plan anything embarrassing. I did want to return a favor though. At that time, Thai was in the habit of tapping my chair (we sit with our backs to each other) while I worked until I turned around. He would then break into song, "Do you want to build a snowman?"

Hence the simple Frozen themed decorations:


May 08th, 2015

In 2016, I decided to go with an island theme. He was constantly day dreaming about relaxing on the sunny beaches of exotic locales. 

Hence the following...




May 8th, 2016

He wasn't embarrassed. Surprised and amused, but not embarrassed. Whatever mortification he felt didn't show itself until I invited the department chair to join us as we sang 'Happy Birthday' to him that afternoon. That year he took the party in stride. 


I knew that I couldn't replicate the detail of last year's feat. So I decided to up the antics when it comes to distribution of the message.


Step 1: Pull out the 6' feet banner conveniently stored in my bottom desk drawer. Place it at the entrance of our floor so that everyone is aware there will be a party later in the day. 
HAPPY BIRTHDAY THAI! 28
JOIN US,
THE KONG LAB, FOR CAKE LATER TODAY! 5.08.17

Step 2: Decorate any space he occupies with gold and silver stars hanging from the ceiling. 


 








Step 3: Find colorful pens to write 'fun facts' about Thai on a banner that will be unfurled when we eat cake. (Remember, everything on this banner is a fact, especially that last blue sentence.)



Step 4: Scope out the lunch room for the best place to hang one more happy birthday sign. Use the empty vase to fill with photo props.


Step 5: Pick up the birthday cake at the best bakery in the city. 


Step 6: Sign the birthday card and send an email invite to the entire floor for a Thai-centered party.



Step 7: Party time with singing, fantastic conversations, cake, and pictures.

This year was a success. Thai did not like the banner at the entrance of the floor. He did not like the 'fun facts' sign. To his chagrin and my delight, Dr. Chen's lab halted their lab meeting for 15 minutes to sing happy birthday to Thai and grab some cake! Thai conceded through uncontrollable laughs as I unveiled more stories, "You win this year, Xazmin."